About Veronika
Hi, I’m Veronika, a Dating & Relationship Coach who has turned personal struggle into a passion for helping others create thriving, meaningful relationships.
My Journey from Loneliness to Connection
Twelve years ago, I was lost. At 21, I was studying Social Work but felt completely disconnected. My friendships were shallow, my romantic relationships were unfulfilling, and my family life was strained. I felt deeply alone and, despite seeing therapists, no one could explain why I felt so miserable.
What I didn’t know then was that I lacked the skills to build healthy, lasting connections.
The Turning Point: Relationship Skills Are Learnable
Growing up, I never learned how to truly connect with others in a healthy way. Instead, I learned how to survive in dysfunctional group dynamics. Over the years, I embarked on a personal journey of deep self-discovery—learning everything I could about healthy relationships, boundaries, emotional intelligence, and how to foster trust and harmony with others.
It wasn’t easy. There were many bumps along the way (you can read about many of them on my blog!). But the transformation has been life-changing.
“I feel in control of my life again!“
Working with Veronika was life changing. I struggled for so long with setting boundaries, feeling overwhelmed by my husband’s strong personality and the demands of my family. With her support, I learned to be more assertive and communicate my thoughts clearly. Now, I feel empowered and confident in my relationships. I’ve finally found a balance that allows me to honor myself while still being there for others. It’s such a relief to feel in control of my life again!
Sophie | UK | Nov 2022
Where I Am Now: Thriving in Relationships
Today, I’m 33 and happily married to my partner Matt, with whom I’ve built a loving, conscious relationship over the past eight years. The connection with my family is better than ever, and I’ve developed a trusted and fun circle of friends.
And, most importantly, I’ve learned the core principles that anyone can use to build healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
And Why I Know You Know You Can Do The Same
I’m not special, and I’m not lucky—I simply learned the skills that many of us were never taught: how to communicate, how to set boundaries, how to resolve conflict, and how to create lasting, loving connections.
I believe healthy relationships are in our nature—we are wired to be connected. The only thing standing between you and the deep, fulfilling relationships you long for is learning these skills.
I Can Help You Create the Relationship You Desire
If you're feeling lonely, disconnected, or frustrated in your relationships, I’ve been there. I understand the pain of longing for deep connection but not knowing how to create it. I’ve felt that confusion, that heartbreak, and that exhaustion.
But I also know it doesn’t have to be this way. Relationships are a skill—and like any skill, they can be learned. Whether it’s building a stronger partnership, healing family dynamics, or developing more meaningful friendships, I can guide you to the skills that will transform your relationships.
“I highly recommend working with Veronika”
I've had sessions with Veronika for a few years, and have greatly benefited from them. Through her clear, honest, validating and reflective approach approach to communication and reflecting important truths, I've gained more self awareness and understanding of dating and relationship dynamics. Veronika often shares helpful and practical resources which have helped me clearly communicate my emotions and needs, which I've been able to easily implement into my personal life. She's guided me through inner child healing visualisations, which have provided me long term healing benefits, and is something I've started to practice independently, after receiving her guidance. I highly recommend her for anyone looking to dive deeper into understanding relationship and dating dynamics, and for overall improved overall self-awareness.
Darius | UK | Nov 2022
What I Offer:
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Dating Coaching
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Relationship Coaching
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Breakup Coaching
My Professional Background
I believe that in any area of life, experience matters just as much as formal training. Here’s a snapshot of both:
Education & Certifications:
2019: Life Coaching Certification
2019: Completion Process Certification (Inner Child Work)
2016: Bachelor of Arts in Social Work
Practical Experience & Achievements:
700+ Coaching Hours
200+ Teaching Hours
4000+ Seminar Participants
180,000+ Views on YouTube
Family Coaching:
I’m also working full time as a family coach in my local area (founded by the German government), helping struggling families to reconnect, create a peaceful home environment & strengthen the bond between parents and children
With a solid foundation of professional training and real-world experience, I’m equipped to guide you in building healthy, loving relationships. But more than that, my personal journey through loneliness and disconnection has shaped the empathy and insights I bring to my coaching.
A Little About Me: Beyond Relationships
When I’m not helping others create fulfilling relationships, you’ll find me:
Travelling: I’ve been to 44 countries, with countless more on my list.
Exploring the ocean: I’m an avid freediver (I can go 25m deep on a single breath!).
DJing: I perform under the name Sillah, mixing Drum and Bass music.
Oh, and fun fact—I met my husband Matt during a backpacking trip in Mumbai, India, in 2017. Now that’s a story for another time!
“Veronika is warm, empathetic and knows her craft very well”
Veronika is warm, empathetic and knows her craft very well. From the end of our first session, she had worked out a style of coaching that would suit what I had been looking for. Veronika listens to what you are saying and just as importantly what you are also not saying as I have found that can sometimes be more telling and helpful! The way Veronika sums up each session and sends an account of what has been discussed and some form of action plan to work on, shows just how well as a coach she has taken everything on board each time and wants to help you be the best you. I absolutely recommend Veronika to anyone who wants to improve their relationships with others in all formats and most importantly with themselves.
Savanna | UK | June 2022
Let’s Create the Connections You Deserve
I’ve discovered the keys to a fulfilling, connected life—and now I’m here to share them with you.
If you're ready to break free from loneliness and start building the deep, meaningful relationships you’ve always wanted, let’s work together.
I see your potential. Let’s unlock it.
“Veronika saved our relationship”
Wow, wow, wow what can we say? Veronika saved our relationship - it’s as simple as that. She showed us what it actually means to respect one another and to truly show up when it matters most. We now have a whole toolbox of practices that we can use when problems arise. We also have developed so much as individuals, feeling more connected to our purpose and life as a whole. It’s a totally new existence and really unexpected. Thank you Veronika, for your kindness, your wisdom and your support. You’re an incredible expert on relationships - we really haven’t found anyone like you out there!
Tine & Sebastian | Germany | Jan 2024